"别跟我来这一套!"

A culture that recoils from "thank you"s is a fascinating one to me. I had lunch with a Chinese friend today, and she was frank with me about her frustrations with China after six years of living in the States.

For one thing, Chinese people don't think much of "thank you" or "please." That type of culture of etiquette, to a large degree, doesn't exist in China. That's not to say that the Chinese aren't thankful. They just don't express it in the same way we do--by saying so. And when they do, it's often an adornment, something that's somewhat 过分, or "over the top."

My friend described her first return back to China after her time in the U.S. Back at home, she began to use words such as "please" when asking for things and "thank you" when receiving things. It wasn't long before her mother became angry with her. “你怎么搞的？怎么一下子是“请”，一下子又是“谢谢”？我又不是陌生人--你别跟我来这一套！” I've heard similar accounts from other friends, and it reminded me of the strange mix of cultures that I come from.

It also reminded me of how American I am. Nevertheless, Happy Chinese New Year. 年糕万岁!

Back In the Game

I finally have internet access from my home computer! Hello, world! Only until you have been denied such a convenience (dare I say "bare necessity"?) can you come to truly appreciate its worth. It's past my bedtime, but I just wanted to say I'm back.

It's good to be back.

When Time Stood Still

It feels like one of those nights where time must be standing still. Deep down within the logical recesses of my brain, I know that that can't actually the case, but it sure feels that way tonight. Now, what I really ought to be doing is working on my law school applications, but what the heck--that can wait a little longer. Especially if it turns out that time really is standing still.

I'm reading through the entire Bible this year for the first time since high school. I'm particularly excited about the reading plan I'm using--it will, for the most part, take me through the Bible chronologically. I'm currently in Genesis and Matthew.

I read through Genesis 12 today, where God promises Abraham that He will bless him and make his descendants as numerous as the stars. I wonder what Abraham thought about that. I mean, did he ever stop to ask, "Why? Why would God do this?" Did he realize how much bigger than himself and his family this thing would turn out to be? Was he able, in faith, to see a descendant for every star he saw in the sky?

One of my favorite Rich Mullins' lines is, "Sometimes I think of Abraham--how one star he saw had been lit for me." Now, if anything will make time stand still for you, thinking about that line will.

In Honor of Martin Luther King, Jr.

I've been reading the Autobiography of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. on and off for the past year. This past Monday, though, I saw a documentary that inspired me to pick it up again. Martin Luther King, Jr.: A Documentary, Montgomery to Memphis is a riveting documentary. If you didn't think that 3-hour documentaries could hold your attention, think again. I highly recommend both the film and the book, although the book gives you a better sense of what an exceptional writer King was. May his legacy live on, and may more of us be emboldened to stand up for justice and truth as he did, even unto death.